The Mashantucket Pequots, who own the Foxwoods Resort Casino, hold the event annually to celebrate survival from the slaughter of so many of their forebears. Last year was the first time they invited a member of the Mohegan Tribe, which owns the Mohegan Sun casino, to participate in the fireside ceremony in Mystic, Conn.
"That was pretty big," Mohegan Chairman Bruce "Two Dogs" Bozsum said in an interview last month with The Associated Press.
The commemoration was a symbolic moment in the close relationship between the two chairmen. With their rival casinos each struggling through slumps, the men see each other not only as friends, but also as allies in a relationship that may be a key to their tribes' future prosperity.
Although the tribes once kept their external affairs entirely separate, Bozsum and the Pequots' chairman, Rodney Butler, have sought to speak in a single voice on issues of mutual interest. In joint talks with Connecticut's governor, they have won concessions including a reduction in the presence of state police at the casinos to lower the amount they have to reimburse the state.
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"It was only good fortune, or good misfortune, that both of us were going through the same economic challenges at the same time," Butler said in a separate interview this month. "How much more successful can we be simply working together?"
Bozsum, 52, first met Butler years ago when he would play golf with Butler's father, but they became close in recent years after each was elected chairman. The friendship has influenced relationships between the tribes, which hold intertribal socials more than ever. Bozsum and Butler, 35, are golfing partners, their families have socialized together, and they speak frequently over the phone.
When talk turns to business, they have plenty of shared challenges to discuss.
Foxwoods and Mohegan Sun opened after the Pequots won federal recognition in 1983 and the Mohegans followed in 1994. After years of success, they have struggled with a steady decline in gambling revenue brought on by the economic downturn and new competition in neighboring states.
The Mohegan Tribal Gaming Authority, which owns casinos in Uncasville and Wilkes-Barre, Pa., announced in March it had refinanced debt of about $1 billion, and the Pequots said in October that creditors had signed on to its plan to restructure $2.2 billion in debt.
Bozsum said the two men discuss industry trends and joke together about their marketing and other strategies, but they do not share proprietary information.
"We do our own thing, but we watch each other. And we both probably adjust to what's happening across the street," Bozsum said.
One area where they have not agreed is how to handle Internet gambling if it is legalized. While the Pequots have expressed interest in running online versions of casino games, Bozsum has argued that legalizing online games other than poker will hurt brick-and-mortar casinos. Bozsum said that he believes the matter should be handled through federal legislation, but that if it becomes a state issue, he and Butler would probably "lock wrists for a while until we figure it out."
The ceremony last spring marked the 375th anniversary of the massacre in which the Mohegans, in alliance with the English and the Narragansett tribe, killed 150 elderly men, women and children in a May 26, 1637, raid on a Pequot village.
Mistrust stemming from that massacre had been the biggest impediment to better tribal relations until now, according to both chairmen, and some members in each tribe have expressed skepticism of the new relationship.
"You'd be surprised how long people hold a grudge," Bozsum said. "We're both fighting for the same things, sovereignty, protect your sovereignty, do what's right for your people and make sure we're here 300 years from now. People can say what they want."
A meeting between the two tribal leaders and Gov. Dannel P. Malloy soon after he took office in 2011 was said to be the first of its kind in hundreds of years. The governor's office, which has renegotiated the agreements requiring the tribes to reimburse the state for public safety services and increased their free-play allowance to boost promotions, said it is eager to help the tribes because their casinos contribute so much to the economy.
"The more we can help them, the more they can help the employees they have and help our state," Lt. Gov. Nancy Wyman said in an interview.
Butler said he is eager to find other areas to cooperate with the state and the Mohegans. Despite challenges both casinos are facing, he said Bozsum's participation in the ceremony in Mystic showed obstacles can be overcome.
"It was just this amazing, spiritual, emotional moment of, What if we can all stand here together on the grounds of where your people slaughtered our people and say, 'This is a beautiful day, and we're celebrating together? Then we can get past anything,'" he said.