But last week, I attended a neighborhood event intended to sow the seeds of peace. A Community Peace Walk, beginning and ending at Bella Vista Elementary School on 11th Avenue, featured a pre-k chorus, a sack race, a potluck, and many colorful posters drawn by students in kindergarten through 5th grade. Bella Vista students, parents, teachers and neighbors took a stroll around the block together, urged on by were told by Andrew Park - parent, neighbor and local pastor - who reminded them, "This is your neighborhood. Walk as if you own it!"
The march was led by the "big kids" - 4th and 5th graders carrying a big yellow banner reading "Neighborhood Peace Walk."
The spirit of the gathering was positive, focusing on creating a peaceful community. Oakland City Council Member Pat Kernighan spoke, as did Mayor Jean Quan. They talked about possibility, grace, love, and working together, without a litany of shooting and homicide statistics.
Bella Vista Principal Felicia Phillips also addressed the crowd.
There were about 400 people who attended the multicultural, multi-racial event, including neighbor and Westlake Middle School English and History teacher, Samira Khattab. She said that her 8th grade students are "so impacted by the trauma of violence. Kids want to see an end to the violence."
Park talked about "celebrating the peace." He said the gathering was intended to be "an exercise in grace. We're not protesting. Each step we take is a participation in grace, looking at others and seeing the beauty and grace in them. That changes the 'hood."Bella Vista 5th grader Kahlea agreed. She said she would tell youth who commit acts of violence to "Do the right thing! Have fun and stop being violent!"
"It was great because you don't want to wake up to gunshots," Said second grade student Ayah. "People should be nice."
Councilwoman Kernighan agreed, and added, "if we are going to change the violence, there need to be grassroots movements, and people need to know they're not alone."
At least one student at the march had a very personal experience with violent crime. Mohamed, who attends Oakland High, was shot about a year ago as he was leaving a party. "A bullet doesn't have a name on it," he cautioned. "Live by the gun, die by the gun."
A hopeful note is that the students I spoke to - 4th and 5th graders mostly - said that violence had not affected them directly. Bella Vista 4th grade teacher Leah Wachtel agreed that for the most part violence has been "outside the classroom," although she added that sometimes older siblings have been shot.
As a teacher, I am thrilled to see this gathering at an elementary school, and would love to see one at every school in Oakland. With our younger students, we can hope to sow seeds for non-violent lives and teach the ideas of peaceful communities. We also should not give up hope on our oldest students, even though they may sometimes seem to have resigned themselves. The youngest will always look up to the oldest, and we should give them the support, encouragement and resources to be worthy role models for those to whom they will someday pass the torch.